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theschooloflife
Followers
221.7K
Total likes
2.8M
Videos
640
Following
12
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The best tool for keeping love alive is probably honesty, the ability to give a partner a genuinely frank account of what is going on inside you, especially when it is not respectable or decent sounding. Being able to say I have had unfaithful thoughts, or I am fed up with you today, or I am still bitter about something you said two years ago, sounds like a risk to intimacy. Shared with real care rather than cruelty, these admissions usually do the opposite. Most falling out of love is really a 3.7K views The best tool for keeping love alive is probably honesty, the ability to give a partner a genuinely frank account of what is going on inside you, especially when it is not respectable or decent sounding. Being able to say I have had unfaithful thoughts, or I am fed up with you today, or I am still bitter about something you said two years ago, sounds like a risk to intimacy. Shared with real care rather than cruelty, these admissions usually do the opposite. Most falling out of love is really a We tend to think falling for someone is the hard part, and that once the feeling arrives, everything else follows on its own. Enthusiasm is cheap, anyone can feel swept up by someone new for a few months. What actually keeps love going is a set of unglamorous skills, knowing how to apologise properly, and how to listen to a complaint without collapsing into shame. None of this arrives with the initial rush of feeling. It has to be learned, usually slowly, and with a fair amount of getting it wro3K views We tend to think falling for someone is the hard part, and that once the feeling arrives, everything else follows on its own. Enthusiasm is cheap, anyone can feel swept up by someone new for a few months. What actually keeps love going is a set of unglamorous skills, knowing how to apologise properly, and how to listen to a complaint without collapsing into shame. None of this arrives with the initial rush of feeling. It has to be learned, usually slowly, and with a fair amount of getting it wro It is easy to look back and feel hopeless at love, wondering why we stayed so long, missed what was obvious, or never spoke up in time. What we forget is that relationships are one of the few genuinely important things we are given almost no practice at before the decisions start to matter. Nobody would expect a great violinist after six lessons, or a champion javelin thrower after four throws, yet most of us have had two or three real relationships before deciding to build a whole life with som2.9K views It is easy to look back and feel hopeless at love, wondering why we stayed so long, missed what was obvious, or never spoke up in time. What we forget is that relationships are one of the few genuinely important things we are given almost no practice at before the decisions start to matter. Nobody would expect a great violinist after six lessons, or a champion javelin thrower after four throws, yet most of us have had two or three real relationships before deciding to build a whole life with som Early dates are a kind of theatre, staged in suitably theatrical places, bars and restaurants at night, where two people meet and tell each other a string of small, not quite deceitful half truths, each trying to win the other over while quietly editing their real self. There is a real paradox in this. What we actually want from love is to be fully known, and yet if someone knew us completely within the first hour, they would very likely run. So early dating pushes us into a kind of necessary re2.3K views Early dates are a kind of theatre, staged in suitably theatrical places, bars and restaurants at night, where two people meet and tell each other a string of small, not quite deceitful half truths, each trying to win the other over while quietly editing their real self. There is a real paradox in this. What we actually want from love is to be fully known, and yet if someone knew us completely within the first hour, they would very likely run. So early dating pushes us into a kind of necessary re

📊 Engagement & reach

Recent videos · views
Sep 3latest
Engagement rate · Building
1.95%
Likes + comments ÷ followers. On TikTok this is the real currency — a highly-engaged mid-size creator often out-performs a bigger, passive one.
Avg likes / video
4.3K
Typical likes on a recent post — the clearest proof of how hard the audience reacts.
Avg views / video
2.2K
Measured across recent posts — the real reach a sponsored video earns.
Typical video
1.6K–2.9K views
Half of recent videos land in this range (median 2.1K) — the reliable floor a sponsored video earns, not just the average lifted by the odd viral hit.
View consistency · Very consistent
85/100
How steady views are across recent videos — a predictable reach a brand can plan around.
Posting cadence
2.9 / week
Posts several times a week — reliably active for a campaign window.
Follower / following
18.5K×
Follows just 12 back — a lopsided ratio typical of a real creator with a genuine audience, not a follow-for-follow account.

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Content niche
Knowledge
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💡 Facts

👁️Averages 2.2K views per stream.
📤Posts about 3.2× per week.
💬1.95% engagement rate.
🏅Earned the 100K Followers for passing 100K followers.

👥 Audience demographics

Estimated

Modeled from this creator's niche, platform & region — a niche benchmark, not this creator's real audience data.

Gender split
Male 42% Female 58%
Age · peak 18-24
13-1718%
18-2440%
25-3424%
35-4410%
45+8%
Top geographies
  • United States34%
  • India11%
  • United Kingdom8%
  • Brazil6%
  • Indonesia5%
Audience language
  • English88%
  • Other12%
Likely interests
EntertainmentLifestyleTrending

🕵️ Fake follower check

Estimated
29/100
Low Credibility score
61%
Mixed Real audience
Medium Fake-follower risk
High Data confidence
  • Est. 61% real, active audience · Medium fake-follower risk.
  • Low engagement (~1.0% of followers engage each post) — a sign of an inflated or inactive audience.
  • Organic base — far more followers than accounts it follows.
  • 1.95% engagement — below the ~4.1% typical for this size.

Heuristic estimate from engagement, follower ratios, account age & growth — a screening signal, not a guarantee.

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There is a scene most of us recognise, a toddler in a supermarket refused a yogurt, screaming and kicking as though the world had ended, while we walk past feeling faintly superior that we don't have a small demon like that in tow. The truth is less flattering. That child is simply saying out loud what we feel constantly and never show, when someone we liked says they would rather just be friends, or a deal falls through, or the boiler breaks on the same day the tax office rejects our forms. Our
1.6K views · 27 days ago
Pascal's observation was that a tree is never wretched, because a tree has no idea what it might be missing. It cannot fall short of anything, since it never had an ambition to fall short of. We are different. We compare ourselves to who we might have been, to people who seem calmer or braver or more loved, and we feel that gap constantly. The gap is painful, and Pascal's point is that it is also the source of everything dignified about us. Only a creature capable of imagining something better t
1.2K views · 28 days ago
Early dates are a kind of theatre, staged in suitably theatrical places, bars and restaurants at night, where two people meet and tell each other a string of small, not quite deceitful half truths, each trying to win the other over while quietly editing their real self. There is a real paradox in this. What we actually want from love is to be fully known, and yet if someone knew us completely within the first hour, they would very likely run. So early dating pushes us into a kind of necessary re
2.3K views · 29 days ago
For plenty of people, being told to just be themselves is close to the worst thing they could hear. If someone's instincts were shaped by a home that was frightening, unpredictable or simply neglectful, following those instincts without question tends to lead them straight back into the same trouble.   A person who grew up placating a moody parent may, by simply being themselves, walk straight into a relationship with someone just like that parent. A person who learned early on to distrust affec
2.1K views · 1 month ago
What most of us long to hear in a moment of relationship stress is not agreement exactly, but the sense that someone can see where we are coming from. Therapists repeat this for good reason. Few phrases in English do as much work as I hear you.   When a partner says something critical, the natural response is to defend ourselves, to insist they have got it wrong. Saying I hear you instead, even without fully agreeing, is a genuinely intimate thing to offer someone. It points to what actually wre
1.8K views · 1 month ago
It is easy to look back and feel hopeless at love, wondering why we stayed so long, missed what was obvious, or never spoke up in time. What we forget is that relationships are one of the few genuinely important things we are given almost no practice at before the decisions start to matter. Nobody would expect a great violinist after six lessons, or a champion javelin thrower after four throws, yet most of us have had two or three real relationships before deciding to build a whole life with som
2.9K views · 1 month ago
The best tool for keeping love alive is probably honesty, the ability to give a partner a genuinely frank account of what is going on inside you, especially when it is not respectable or decent sounding. Being able to say I have had unfaithful thoughts, or I am fed up with you today, or I am still bitter about something you said two years ago, sounds like a risk to intimacy. Shared with real care rather than cruelty, these admissions usually do the opposite. Most falling out of love is really a
3.7K views · 1 month ago
We tend to think falling for someone is the hard part, and that once the feeling arrives, everything else follows on its own. Enthusiasm is cheap, anyone can feel swept up by someone new for a few months. What actually keeps love going is a set of unglamorous skills, knowing how to apologise properly, and how to listen to a complaint without collapsing into shame. None of this arrives with the initial rush of feeling. It has to be learned, usually slowly, and with a fair amount of getting it wro
3K views · 1 month ago
Love is the thing most of us say we want more than anything, and yet the moment it actually arrives, unguarded and complete, it can feel closer to panic than joy. We move fast with someone new, say the big words early, and then, right as the last barrier comes down, something in us goes numb rather than happy. Kindness starts to feel heavy. We catch ourselves hoping the phone buzzing is anyone but them. This almost always traces back to childhood, to a wall built early because staying open once
2.1K views · 1 month ago
Animals shape their character around the habitat they need to survive in, and so do we, except our habitat is the family we were born into. A child works out quickly what keeps it safe there, staying quiet, performing constantly, or causing trouble to be noticed at all. This explains a great deal of behaviour that otherwise looks baffling or unkind, since someone's guardedness or dishonesty was very likely once a smart way to survive a difficult house. The trouble is that habitats change while t
1.5K views · 1 month ago

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