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One of the quickest ways to misunderstand someone is to judge their behavior without understanding the pressure they're living under. I've heard people call women "desperate," "needy," or "in a rush" because they want to find love. But for many women, this isn't just about finding a partner. It's about wanting the chance to build a family before that choice is no longer theirs to make. Whether or not that's your dream is beside the point. What matters is recognizing that we all judge people thro

Have you ever dated an avoidant person? I'd love to know your experience in the comments.

Even if it doesn't feel like it right now, you still have time. You still have time to meet someone. To build something meaningful. To finish the degree, change careers, take the trip, or create the life you've been imagining. But while we have time for so many things, we only get one chance to live the life that's happening today. It's easy to convince ourselves that life will begin once we meet that person, once we have more confidence, once the circumstances are different, or once we're final

If you're going through heartbreak or grieving the end of a relationship, tap the link in my bio to watch the recording of 5 Days to Mend, a free live experience I hosted this week. The replay is only available until TONIGHT at midnight; it’s helped thousands already, and I know it will help you too. So be sure to watch it before it's gone. ❤️‍🩹

Go to MendWeek.com if you're ready to start choosing yourself again. ❤️‍🩹 One of the hardest things about losing a relationship is believing it ended because we finally asked for what we needed... like we caused the very thing we were trying to avoid. But some people benefit from our silence. They get to keep showing up inconsistently and still enjoy all the benefits of having us in their life. If you recently spoke up and the relationship ended, you didn't make a mistake. You just gave yourself

Go to MendWeek.com if you're ready to start taking care of yourself again after a painful breakup. ❤️‍🩹 One of the hardest things about heartbreak is that the person who leaves us often continues to occupy our mind long after they've left our life. We replay conversations. We imagine different outcomes. We relive the relationship over and over again. And the more we ruminate, the more our mind convinces us that they must have been right for us. But here's what we have to remember: We're no longe

Go to MendWeek.com if you're ready to start treating the wound of your heartbreak. ❤️‍🩹 This is a short clip from Day 1 of 5 Days to Mend, where we explored how to cope with the pain of heartbreak instead of letting it consume us. Today, in Day 2, we tackled one of the biggest struggles after a breakup: How to stop thinking about them. I also showed you why it's so hard to let go, why your mind keeps replaying the relationship, and the practical tools you can use to quiet the rumination and fina

Go to MendWeek.com if you’re trying to heal from someone who never truly chose you. ❤️‍🩹 I know so many of you will relate to this… You meet someone incredible. The chemistry is undeniable. You build a real connection, share meaningful moments, and do all the things people in a relationship do. But they still won’t commit. So you end up in an on-and-off cycle where they can’t choose you, but they can’t seem to let you go either. And because what you share feels so real, you keep hoping that one

Go to MendWeek.com and start feeling better today. 💔 There's nothing more painful than seeing the person you love choose someone else. Our heart shatters into a million pieces, and no matter how much we try, we can't seem to let them go. Instead, we find ourselves dwelling on the past, unable to move forward. Sometimes for weeks, sometimes for months, sometimes for years... And what makes it even harder is the story we start telling ourselves: that they were the right person for us, and somehow

A message for anyone who needs this reminder today ❤️ Thanks, @Simon Sinek, for having me.

If you’ve been hard on yourself lately… If you feel like you’re falling behind… If today feels heavier than usual… If you’ve been waiting for someone to show up for you… This video is for you. ❤️ 🎥: @thedrewbarrymoreshow

Remember, arguments don’t ruin relationships - how we handle them does. Understanding this is key to building a healthy, long-lasting relationship. And if you want to know the 5 things I’ve learned that make relationships - and marriages - truly work, go check out my new video. You’ll find the link in my bio or on my YouTube channel.